Family Owned Since 2013 — 13,000+ Reviews
Family Owned Since 2013 — 13,000+ Reviews
by Melissa Bajda Updated 7 min read
The problem with gag gifts is that most of them are funny once, in the eight seconds between the paper coming off and somebody changing the subject. Then they sit in a cupboard until she moves house.
The ones worth buying do two jobs. They get the laugh in the room, and then they survive into ordinary use, which usually means somebody put her name or her face or her exact age on them.
Three things, in order. It has to be readable in one second, because she is opening it in front of people and nobody has patience for a joke that needs explaining. It has to be about a thing she says about herself, not a thing you have noticed about her. And it helps enormously if it has her name on it, because a personalized joke reads as effort while a generic one reads as something grabbed at a checkout.
That third point is the one most lists skip. A novelty mug from a shop is a shrug. The same mug with her name and the exact age she has been refusing to say out loud is the one that ends up on somebody's story.
All three put a real photograph somewhere absurd, which is the most reliable formula we have found.
A five foot blow up man with her friend's face printed on it. Nobody at the party recovers from this.
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A pool ring float with a photo of her face on it, which is a lot to commit to and that is the point.
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Her photo redrawn as a caricature and printed onto slate, so the joke is permanent and framed.
See the detailsThirty, forty, fifty and beyond. This is where age humor genuinely works, because the joke is one she is already making about herself.
A soft throw that says Half a F***ing Hundred and Fabulous, with her name on it. Censored, just.
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A 15 oz glass reading I AM [her age]+ with a rude little hand gesture. You pick the age at checkout.
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A 40 oz stainless tumbler in the Sassy Since design, personalized with her year. Holds a lot of coffee.
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Marble and acacia engraved Aged To Perfection, so the joke sits on the table all night at her party.
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A 16 oz ceramic mug in nine designs and six colors, with her name added if you want it.
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A laser engraved tumbler for the thirtieth, personalized, for someone taking it better than expected.
See the detailsSend a photo, get back a caricature. It is the funniest thing we make, mostly because nobody is ever quite prepared for what their own face looks like drawn this way.
Any photo redrawn as a 2D cartoon and framed. Works on friends, couples, families and the dog.
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A 20 oz insulated tumbler carrying her own caricature and whatever message you want under it.
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Her photo turned cartoon and then woven into 100% cotton on a loom rather than printed on.
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Her face on a wine glass. Pick the cute photo or the deeply unflattering one, both work here.
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A cartoon version of her photo on an acrylic panel that lights up, which is somehow funnier lit.
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The Birthday Diva design with her own caricature on it, for someone who enjoys the attention.
See the detailsWe are a personalized gift company, so there are whole categories of funny we do not touch. If none of the above is right, these are the ones worth a look. We make none of them and earn nothing if you buy them.
Office parties, secret santa, and the friend you see twice a year. A personalized mug or a wine glass with a rude number on it covers this.
The main range. Caricature tumblers, cartoon portraits and the sassy milestone blankets all sit here, and all of them get kept.
The big swing for a milestone. The blow up man, the ring float, the caricature slate. Buy these when there is an audience.
What is a good gag gift for a woman's birthday?
Something that is obviously a joke on sight but still gets used afterwards. A personalized tumbler with a rude number on it does both. A gift that is only funny for the eight seconds she unwraps it does not.
Are gag gifts rude?
They are if the joke is about her rather than with her. Age jokes generally land, appearance jokes generally do not, and anything referencing her weight, her relationship status or her parenting will land badly no matter how it is delivered.
What is the difference between a gag gift and a joke gift?
In practice, nothing. Both mean the recipient laughs first and finds a use for it second. The only real distinction worth caring about is whether she keeps it or bins it a week later.
Should a gag gift be the only gift?
For a milestone birthday, no. Pair it with something she genuinely wants. The gag gift is the moment in the room, the real gift is the one she takes home and uses.
Do you personalize the funny ones too?
Yes, and it is what makes them land. A generic novelty mug is a shrug. The same mug with her name and the exact age she is refusing to acknowledge is the one that gets photographed.
How fast do these ship?
Everything we sell on this page ships in 1 to 2 days, personalization included.
If you are stuck, put her face on something. It has never once failed to get a reaction, and unlike most jokes it comes with a photograph she gets to keep.
Co-FounderAbout the Author
Co-Founder, Groovy Girl Gifts · Monroe, Connecticut
Melissa Bajda is the co-founder of Groovy Girl Gifts, the family-run personalization studio in Monroe, Connecticut. A mom of two, she blends trend-spotting from shows like NY NOW with the real question every gift-giver asks: will they actually treasure this? She has spent more than a decade helping people turn a name, a date, or an inside joke into a gift that gets remembered.

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